Merry Christmas
When I was a kid, Christmas was undoubtedly my favorite time of year. Beyond the excitement of gifts and holiday magic, there was the added bonus of getting time off school. Those were simpler days, filled with joy and anticipation. Today, Christmas is still one of my favorite times of year, but it comes with a new set of responsibilities—parenting, social obligations, and the general hustle and bustle of adult life. Despite these added layers, the holiday retains its magic for me.
In my teenage years, I worked at a grocery store, and the holiday season was one of the best times to be on the job. Customers were usually in high spirits, stocking up on ingredients for their holiday feasts, and almost everyone I encountered cheerfully said, “Merry Christmas.” The atmosphere was warm, inviting, and full of goodwill—the essence of the season.
Over the past 15 years, however, I’ve noticed a shift. Saying “Merry Christmas” has become something of a corporate faux pas in some circles, viewed as lacking diversity, globalization, and inclusiveness. Personally, I believe this way of thinking is entirely backward.
I am Catholic, and I love Christmas. When I wish someone “Merry Christmas,” it’s offered with love, happiness, and the hope that they can take a moment to rest and recharge. These sentiments are universal; they transcend religion or background. None of this is meant to exclude or offend. In fact, it’s quite the opposite—it’s an expression of goodwill.
Similarly, when my Jewish friends wish me “Happy Hanukkah,” I feel a deep sense of warmth and connection, even though I don’t share their faith. When my Muslim friends extend a heartfelt “Happy Eid,” I feel included and appreciated. These greetings are beautiful gestures that celebrate what makes us unique while fostering a sense of unity. They’re not divisive—they’re bridges.
Living peacefully together while celebrating our individual beliefs and traditions is one of humanity’s greatest achievements. It’s what makes communities rich, vibrant, and resilient. Hiding or diminishing these expressions of faith and culture in the name of inclusivity does the opposite of what it intends. It flattens the diverse tapestry of human experience into something less colorful, less meaningful.
So, this holiday season, I’ll continue to say “Merry Christmas” with pride and sincerity, just as I’ll gladly accept greetings of joy from others celebrating their own traditions. Let’s embrace these differences and recognize that the simple act of sharing a holiday wish, whatever it may be, is a profound and inclusive way to connect with one another.
Merry Christmas to you and yours. May your season be filled with love, happiness, and peace.
- Ben
